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Thursday, April 15, 2010

The Girls Dresses: Serene and Style

First attempt - these dresses were gorgeous, but a bit too much - but the candy apple dress color was so gorgeous!
We liked the strapless, but one of the ladies is a mom and would be bending down a lot all night to pick-up her girls and didn't want to be showing everything. The lady on the left ended up staying with the strapless (she looked amazing, it fit her body really well).

This dress fit amazing on my lady on the far left, although she ended up altering it by making two straps out of it and it looked really great (plus then she could wear a bra). This dress is hard to wear with a bra. The lady on the right with the pink dress had a hard time getting her size D girls into the dress - it is really fit for more like B or C size cups.

This was almost perfect - the lady on the left altered her straps, the lady with the black dress looked amazing and didn't change a thing, the lady on the right with the pink chose a different dress with a sweetheart neckline, and the lady on the right went for the illusion alter dress instead so she could bend down. My younger sister was also in the wedding (as you will see below, and she went for the regular halter top dress without alterations).
The end result:

The girls dresses (left to right); Halter, Strapless, Illusion Halter, Sweetheart, Halter turned to Strap
I took me only one trip to one bridal store to find my dress (more on that next), but for the girls dresses we looked at a bunch of different websites and stores. My girls are from three different states (Ohio, Virginia, and Illinois), so we had to do our research before our only weekend shopping together. We bought our dresses at the end of March and mid-April, and the wedding was in September, which was really good timing. All the dresses were in by mid-July.
David's Bridal had the best prices, and with being a national company it was easy to find local David's Bridals for my girls to order near their home.
Originally I really wanted Horizon for my color, but it was way too bright (would've been great for a summer, outdoor wedding though). One of my girls was trying on a dress and the only color in her size was Serene and we didn't like the dress, but we loved the color so much that we changed it.

As a photographer of many weddings, there is nothing I hate more than when brides fit the dresses around one girl (usually the one with this amazing body), and the rest of the girls have to squeeze into the same dress style that looks horrible on them. I couldn't do that to my girls - so they got to choose whatever style they wanted. The only compromise was that they wear the same color, and we choose all short/tea-length/or long.

Now I must say my girls have amazing figures, but the above pictures give you an idea of what the dresses look like on girls with different cup sizes, waist sizes and hips. The biggest thing was actually not the waist size (David's Bridal is great about hiding tummies and hips and not being too clingy), but the bra size - a lot of the dresses were made for B and C cups.

Thursday, January 29, 2009

As the fairy tale becomes a 'crazy' reality

I was chatting with a good friend of mine, Alyssa, at a party last weekend. She is getting married in December, and became engaged to her lovely fiance, David this past Thanksgiving. At the party a friend of ours asked how all our planning was going...and I was relived to hear someone else say (out loud) that it was much more stressful than they thought it would be.

She's worked for a long time making cupcakes and cakes for weddings, she knows how it goes and all the planning. I spend about 15-20 weekends a year attending or taking pictures for weddings, I know how it goes. Well, we thought anyways.

She figured out earlier than I did how expensive invitations and centerpieces are, so she decided to make her own. I realized that a few weeks ago, and now am following the same path. It makes things a bit more stressful - but luckily Taylor and his family are a huge help.

The biggest thing that makes it a bit of a "painful" process is not having my mom and the majority of my best friends and maids of honor here with me. I luckily have Taylor and his amazing family, and my good friend, Michelle who was a maid of honor twice and is so awesome.

However, it is so hard doing this without my mom sometimes. Not that I can't technically do it alone, it's not so bad, but just not having her here for the moments I always thought we would do together.

Luckily my friends are coming in March, and my mom is coming soon after my wedding dress comes in (early summer), so I am lucky to have those moments to look forward to.

Though it really makes me think twice about moving away and having kids - I can get through this okay, but it would be much tougher to go through all the craziness of first-time pregnancy without my family or friends from home closer.

How low can shoes go?

So my fiance is only 2 inches taller than me...in his sweet shoes that he's gonna hate by the end of the reception he maybe gets an extra inch with a heel. My dress perfectly fits all 5 feet and 10 inches of me...without heels on. Therefore, due to his height and the dress I can only get about 1 inches in heel height. Which is, by the way, totally fine with me because I'm not a heel person. I am jealous of the heel people though - all the Jaclyns and Michelles out there that can strut their stuff without falling, totally jealous - but I lack the high heel gene. Instead I got the clumsy and tall gene.

Ideally, I would love just to find an awesome slipper that I could wear in and outdoors...but most slippers aren't built that way. Here are some contenders though:

Totes® Isotoner Classic Satin Ballet Slippers